Lovey Dovey Names
So it’s maybe a pleasant little reality jolt to discover their affectionate names for each other were Ma and Pa.
Like England’s Queen Elizabeth – who is called Cabbage by her husband Prince Phillip (according to the movie The Queen) or Prince Charles and the Duchess of Cornwall, whose pet names for each other are Fred and Gladys, there’s an endearing earthiness that speaks of unvarnished acceptance.
Cutesie Pet Names
Not for them the more Cutsie Pie monikers – the endless list of lover’s nicknames we dream up to show someone we think they are special…
Angel Heart, Baby Cakes, Big Daddy, Booboo, Bun buns, Butter Babe, Cutie Patootie, Huggalump, Numnums, Peachy Pie, Peanut Butt . . . . you get the idea . .
Of course a recent book claimed these kinds of sweetners are the kiss of death to a relationship, breeding familiarity which is so closely followed by contempt.
So how to explain the endearing Lombard-Gable story.
Ma and Pa Glamour Pair
Like many showbiz pairs, they looked too good together to be true. Tall, blonde and fiery-eyed, Carole Lombard epitomized 1930s glamor; Clark Gable, with his broad shoulders and devil’s grin, seemed every inch his nickname – the King.
But the queen of comedies, who swore freely and loved practical jokes, and her rough-and-ready leading man were more than just Golden Age window dressing. The love they shared for six years was that Hollywood rarity: the real thing.
In January 16, 1942, the idyll ended. Lombard, who had just wrapped her 57th film, To Be or Not to Be, was on a tour to sell war bonds when the twin-engine DC-3 she was traveling in crashed into a mountain near Las Vegas.
Upon hearing the news, Gable flew to the scene and had to be forcibly restrained from climbing the snowcapped mountain himself in an effort to rescue her.
After Carole’s body, along with the bodies of her mother and 19 others, was discovered, he reportedly sobbed, “Oh, God! I don’t want to go back to an empty house. . . .”
Gable re-married twice but “was never the same” after Lombard’s death.